Friday, 13 November 2020

A Dichotomy of Nostalgia

So I was lying in bed this morning, and for whatever reason, some thoughts of a house I used to live in came to my mind. This led me to do am evocative tour of the whole place in my head, inevitably leading to associated memories of other places nearby, and a warm, yet heavy feeling of nostalgia.

Nostalgia. It presents as pleasant and emotion-provoking memories of times, places and people past. If it is only enjoyed in a passing moment, as a glimpse of a previous aspect of one's life, then it is harmless, or even lovely, like hearing from an old friend. But nostalgia also has a darker component to it. I'm not talking about bad memories here, I'm talking about being trapped in the past, putting too much emphasis on its value, and perhaps even consciously or subconsciously trying to recreate some or all of the aspects of those memories that generate those nostalgic feelings. More than that, if one's present life requires you to be fully invested in it, due to your responsibilities and those who rely on you, losing focus on that for too long can be harmful and quite stressful.

I have nostalgic thoughts fairly frequently, as described above. Recently, LinkedIn, bless it, sent me a job advert for a superb role in KL - Operations Director for a limestone outfit. Multiple sites, operations, resource development and strategic improvement. All 100% right up my alley. At almost any other time in the last 10 years, I would have jumped through hoops for this job, and despite the over 200 applicants, I believe I would be a very good chance of being successful. Because I spent some years in limbo in the 2010's, firstly ASN-related, then Barooga Store-related, both times trying to find a way out and a way back to steady employment, having these kinds of Eureka/Salvation moments are not foreign to me, and to be honest, I have been in the past, guilty of pursuing the so-called pot at the end of the rainbow without really fleshing out the move in enough detail.

Anyway, no need to delve into those decision-making processes. This is about the traps of living in the past. I am here now, yes it is a hard job, and yes I do enjoy it. Good team, good company, good security. Ok, it's not SE Asia, there isn't a good pork noodle joint close by for me to go get lunch at, there is no real multi-cultural aspect to life here, which can be a little mundane. But it is providing for me and my family, exactly what it was that I was looking for - stability. I told John I was good for 10 years and I think I need to keep that promise, at least for half of it. If I do my job well, well then I should be good for the other half, because I will have created the atmosphere and quarry department that doesn't need me burning the candle at both ends and making it up as I go along.

This is as much about me changing my own perceptions and my own habit to look for change and keep things interesting by always moving around. That isn't sustainable. Not with three young kids anyway. Putting down roots here makes sense. It will be good for all of us, and unless something happens like winning Lotto, I reckon this will do for me.


Thursday, 3 September 2020

Happy Birthday Dan Boy

Today my eldest son turned seven. Below is a letter I wrote to him when he turned four, and has been sitting in my draft emails ever since:

"My dearest Danny Boy,

Today you turned 4 years old! Wow, what a milestone for you. 




Mummy and I are so proud of you Daniel. You wear your heart on your sleeve much of the time, and do sometimes have difficulty controlling your emotions, but you are a thoughtful and loving little boy. You sometimes get angry with your siblings but we can also see how you truly care for them, and think of their well-being and feelings.

We love that you love your grandma so much too Dan Boy. She is so gentle and patient and is able to bring out the best in you, always. She helped us to see how creative you are, and I must say we were so impressed with the structures you made from the superhero discs and also the blocks at Grandma's house. I love to play Lego with you too and am proud that you like it as much as I do. I really look forward to building a whole Lego city with you when you're a little bigger."

Some things haven't changed all that much since this day in 2017! But then again, many have. My boy is really growing up. Yes he still struggles with his emotions sometimes, but he's learning to control them. I love that he is not afraid to show his feelings, he just needs to remember that he's in charge of them, not the other way around. But for seven years of age, he probably does a far better job of it than I do quite frankly. 

Daniel you have come a long way in this past year. We have always known you are a very clever boy, and you have shown it in a big way with your progress at school. I'm very impressed with your reading now, and your basic maths, but most importantly, your application to learning. I know it can still be a drag sometimes, but you get stuck in, and frankly most of the time you complain less than anyone else.

I look forward to lockdown ending so we can get outside more too. I can see the amount of energy you have, and doing stunts around the house just isn't enough to burn it off. You are strong, athletic, imaginative and fun, and I do enjoy watching your games with your siblings, just as long as you're not risking your life too much!

I also love watching you play Zelda and other games online, it really is impressive just how adept you are with them and how good your hand-eye coordination is. One of these days we must teach you how to throw and catch, and maybe take in a game of cricket together, like we did when we had a Dad-Dan day and went to the movies. Our board games are a whole lot of fun too.

Dan-boy, you are truly a very special and wonderful person, and someone I am very, very proud of. I love you with all my heart, and wish you a very special birthday today. I hope you enjoy your present, and I look forward to seeing you use it! Take care my boy, and thank-you for being you.

Love Daddy


Wednesday, 26 August 2020

Goodbye Old Friend


It's actually a rather poignant post, as apart from the item below that I am tongue-in-cheek referring to, it looks like a real friend of mine is also deciding to bid me farewell.


Anyway, more on that later. Today, I dropped off this motheriser of a piece at a courier, on its way to a new home and owner in QLD. I bought this while pissed, back in 2012, when we were living in Seni Mont Kiara - to this day the most awesome abode we have ever had. I had watched Clarke hit his triple, and then when Skip was over one day, this popped up on the TV. I immediately bought it. It came with us, to Texas later that year, then back again in 2014 when we moved into Damansara Heights. There it finally got displayed, put on the wall within a frame, custom-made by the awesome people at http://hongcreativespace.com.my/ Hong was cheap, friendly, reliable and did excellent work. I still have his work displayed in my office, with my boxed mining models having pride of place there now.

But when we moved back to Oz in 2016, the beautiful framed bat went into storage in my shed. There it stayed until late 2019, when we moved into our new home in Echuca. But it went from being in a shed to being in a cupboard. During that time, something had changed within me, and I no longer yearned to collect everything under the sun. Wifey and I have learned (ok mostly me) to adopt a more minimalist lifestyle, as all the moving we have done has really shown just how much of a drag having a lot of possessions can be - and how little most of them really add to the richness of our lives. So over the past eight months, I have been busy selling a lot of it off, and have been very successful in doing so. Previously we would simply donate whatever we didn't need, and frankly over the years we have donated several households-worth of goods. But a lot of the more collectible ones remained, and it is those that I have been letting go. I still have a small Lego collection and a decent metal collection, as well as a few remaining bits of sports memorabilia, but that's about it. After living in Kupang for 18 months, essentially out of three suitcases, we found that we enjoy this kind of lifestyle more. Of course we still have all our kitchen and household goods, and we have bought new furniture, but nothing we are particularly attached to. I call this progress!

Now, onto the less fun part of the post. Recently (last few weeks) a long-time friend has started ignoring my online messages. Not some - all. I know he has seen them, but he probably doesn't realise I know. Anyway, I messaged a few more times asking what was up, no reply. Hey, there could be a valid reason, but our relationship has always been "put it all on the table straight up" and there is no reason to think it should be otherwise now. I spoke to him not a couple of months ago and all good. He lives in QLD himself. So why just simply stop taking calls, stop responding to messages? 

The thing is, well you know what, your fucking loss mate. Yes you're my friend, but life has taught me some harsh realities in recent years, and the #1 of those is - life is short, make the most of it, and invest time only into those who invest it back. Things have changed a bit since I got this latest job. It is in many ways, my dream job, and I love it. I am just so happy doing what I do and it has been some time since I have been in this position. I do only work 40-45 hours per week, but it does take a fair bit of my emotional energy too, plus some extra travel on top of those hours.

Then we have my amazing family. My wife and three beautiful and simply incredible children. I love them all, with all my being. I know that their time as children is so precious, and with some health scares earlier in the year, I also know that my time with them (and anyone else for that matter) is also bloody precious. So I am ensuring I am there for them all when I am at home.

In a week we have 7 x 24 hours. That's 168 hours. Take 8 hours per day off for sleep, which while I may not spend it all counting Z's, I do spend that much time in bed, mostly asleep. So 168 - 56 - 50 (work + road time) = 62 hours remaining. Each morning I spend a good 1.5 hours doing breakfast, coffee, bathroom, etc. That's 10.5 hours, call it 10. So we're down to 52 hours remaining. On weekdays I get home from work, chill for a bit, we eat dinner, clean up, chill a little more as a family, and then bed. That's about 20 hours in the week. 32 hours left. Most of that is obviously weekend time. I spend a bit more of that with my family: cooking, playing board games, building Lego, going on adventures, etc. Add some time on for showering etc, and not a lot is left. I need some of that time for myself and my own interests, be it reading, noodling, metal detecting, or whatever. 

So you get the drift, I don't have a lot of spare time. With that time, I need to devote some to my extended family, and my friends. Not a lot, but they're worth it. The thing is, through all of this I have discovered something (that I have been suspecting for many years). There are friends who will yell out to you if they haven't heard from you for a while, be that weeks or even years, and there are friends that you will never hear from - it only works when you make the effort. I have come to the realisation that I have a number of this second category of friends. It is kind of saddening, but it's the truth. And those that remain firmly in the first category are not always the ones you thought they would be. Skip, JR, Brian, Stu, Subra, Adam, Darcel, to name a few of the good ones. Plus of course my mum and sister. My brother too, although that's not always as easy as maybe it should be. 

Anyway, so there it is. Am I saying goodbye forever to those who put in no effort? Not really, but just don't expect me to be the one constantly bridging the gap from now on. If that means we drift apart forever, then so be it. We all have people important to our lives at certain times, and not all will come with us down the track. That doesn't downplay their importance at the time they were more central, it just changes the kind of relationship I thought I had with them. This friend I mentioned above, who has decided to stop responding to me. Well I will likely try one more time sometime, to see if I can talk to him, but the amount of energy I am willing to invest into relationships that don't go both ways is limited. Time, and life is simply too precious to waste.




Sunday, 26 July 2020

Six Months of YouTube

Ok so this is a bit of a self-indulgent one. I have noticed, for some time now, that my consumption of news, media and entertainment has gone markedly online, particularly in the last five years. So much so that if it wasn't for the fact that the kids play their video games on our Nintendo Switch, we would not even need a TV at all. The only show we watch ever is Masterchef, and yep, that can be enjoyed online these days too. Frankly, I like to pick and choose my shows, even binge them sometimes, and I love to be able to customise my news feed - the iPad News app is awesome for that!

So a few weeks ago I decided to have a look at my YouTube account, which is where I consume most of my entertainment, research stuff, and just enjoy. It turns out that over the last six months, pretty much since we arrived in Oz, but including most of the last month in KL, I watched 1,040 videos on YouTube, which is about 3 or so per day on average. The 1,000 stat sounds like a lot, but the 3 per day one doesn't. Especially considering that I rarely will commit to watch a video of more than 15 minutes long. On average they are probably close to 10 minutes. The table below summarises the various categories of my viewing:


Sheesh, for some strange reason the old copy-paste with tables has abandoned me and we're back to this shitty old problem with really crappy rendering of the image. No idea why that happens, but seeing as this is a personal blog and not a professional one, I guess it doesn't matter much.

Anyway, so no surprises really, although I didn't expect movies and TV to be at the top. I reckon if I repeat this in another six months then travel and food will push up the list. I do like to watch movie trailers though, as well as clips from my favourite series such as Star Trek TNG and the new Battlestar Galactica. For those not in the know, when I say "metal" I don't mean music, I literally mean metal - be it metal detecting, investing in bullion, noodling, coin collecting, whatever.

So I do surf the recommended section an awful lot, but I have a number of subs too. This next list shows which ones I binged the most over this same period. Kind of surprised Greg is at the top of the list. He is very camp, and a bit lame, but lots of fun, and I do enjoy watching him. Simon Wilson has gone quiet since covid, which is a pity but totally understandable. A lot of history in there, and Planet Weird isn't bad, although they better damn well find something in their next season!


Anyway, if you enjoy any of the things I do, perhaps consider checking out one of these channels. They are all good, in their own unique way. 



Saturday, 25 July 2020

Books I Have Read In 2020

So I'll kick this off...

My goal is to read a book per month, I think that's reasonable and achievable - IF I put the effort in. Much like anything really.

I have 31 books on my shelves that I have not yet read, and that's after culling about 50 more when we moved to Echuca. My wife and I are not minimalists, but we have experienced hoarding first-hand, and have moved internationally numerous times. Put those together, along with my age-old collection of books, sporting memorabilia, Lego, rocks, and various other crap, and it becomes rather tedious - not to mention damn expensive - to shift this stuff around all the time. Plus I had to consider which books I had been keeping that were just "trophy" books, or was I really going to potentially read them again? That's what prompted the mass cull. Frankly about half or more of those 31 unread tomes are destined for the donation bin at some stage too, but not until I have consumed them...

Anyway, so this is going to be a bit of a funny post. This bit is actually being written in late 2019, with a view to the new year in a few days (hey I am NOT a NY resolution kind of person, but sometimes it's valuable to measure things in terms of what can be done in the period of one year). So anything beyond this point will reference specific books, possibly with a footnote at the end of it all.

Yes, quite correct Dave. In fact this latest paragraph (plus the second half of the top one) is being written in late July. Having been more than halfway through this covid-infested year, I can safely say that I am well behind in my reading. A decent Clive Cussler pulp, an enjoyable-but-not-legendary Stephen King para-psychological thriller, finishing off a seedy report on Jakarta's underbelly, and a fairly forgettable Star Wars novel (not around the canon story arcs, one of the frequently enjoyable sidelines) make up four of the five books I have read thus far. The fifth is the one standout - Gweilo by Martin Booth, which is a hugely nostalgic memoir about a Hong Kong childhood, albeit one that occurred 40 years before mine. Amazingly enough though, that fellow lived much of his at number 80 Waterloo Road, whereas my years in HK were spent at number 90. What a coincidence! Anyway, I loved the book and have since lent it to a friend of mine who also spent a number of years living in the ex-British colony.


So this reading challenge is one I partake in, care of the Goodreads app. It sends out an email each year, asking its members to set themselves a goal in terms of number of books to get through in the coming 12 months. In previous years I had set ridiculous goals (in the 20's), and either fallen drastically short, or simply forgotten to record my progress at all. This year however, I am more keen on keeping up with it, as I find that the busyness of life makes reading easy to slip by the wayside, and given what an amazing form of exercise for the brain it is, I don't want to continue to let that happen.

Interestingly though, my next reading goals are not part of the 31. In fact they go waaaayyyy back, back to 1991, back to a second-hand bookshop in Melbourne, and back to the second oldest book in my collection - the first being the complete works of Sherlock Holmes by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, gifted to me by my father back sometime in the early 80's. I should read that one again sometime too, but for now my sights are set on two books - my first ever Steven Brust Vlad Taltos novel - Jhereg, and the first of his crazy trilogy called the Khaavren Romances, titled The Phoenix Guards. It was the former that I picked up in that dusty shop back in my first year of university, and has stayed with me since. An omnibus of his first three Taltos books, published, in my opinion, in an incorrect order! 1-3-2 in terms of time instead of 1-2-3. Anyway, I digress. The thing is, it has been so long since I read that omnibus that I can't remember it at all, but seeing as I now own everything Brust has ever written, and greedily consume anything new that comes into print, as well as stalking him on his blog, I think it would be a wonderful experience to go back to where it all began and start anew.

That's the first one. The second one, and frankly if I see this all the way through will take me past my goal of 12 books this year, is to reread the Khaavren trilogy. Or trilogy within a trilogy, because Book 3 is itself split into three more books, so it's a five book trilogy if that makes sense. Anyway, it was recently announced that a new book - The Baron of Magister Valley - is soon to be published, and this is a sequel to the original trilogy. Very exciting! But the thing is, much like with Taltos, it was so long ago that I read books 1 and 2, and I never finished the Book 3 trilogy, that I need to go back and start over. That's going to be quite a task, but I feel it is one I need to do.

So there you go, how's that for self-indulgent? I have no idea if I'll even come close to accomplishing these reading goals, but I hope I give it a fair crack. I know enjoying Brust's works all over again is going to be fun.





Friday, 24 July 2020

See Who Win, See Who Lose

Haha, this makes me laugh.

Eeny meeny miny moe,
Catch a tiger by his toe.
If he hollers let him go,
Eeny meeny miny moe.

Everyone knows it right? Of course there's the older version with a less PC version of the word "tiger" but we'll stick with the newer one. It's a children's counting rhyme from the early 1800's and appears to be a staple in almost every part of the world, in many different languages.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eeny,_meeny,_miny,_moe

My wife's family is Malaysian Chinese, with a fairly strong connection to the pre-independence British colonial history of the country, and the associated influences. My father in-law is both proud of this part of his heritage, and the place Malaysia was in those days, as well as being a staunch advocate for Chinese culture. It's actually a pretty decent middle ground as long as you don't dig too deeply. And hey, we're all allowed to have our opinions, especially those that perhaps are not always consistent with each other. I, for one, am a prime example of such hypocrisy from time to time. I think we all can be. Anyway, I digress. One of the wonderful and admirable things about my in-laws is their amazing grasp of language. Of course most Malaysians - especially the non-Malays - can speak multiple languages, but these guys take the cake. My wife for instance, can speak English (self-taught), Malay, Cantonese, workable Mandarin and Hakka, and get by in Tamil. That's pretty darn impressive. Plus she also spends some of her spare time learning Japanese and Dutch. Her family are all the same, whereas whilst I am proud of my grasp of English, struggle with much else. It's true I can get by in Malay and Cantonese, at least enough to order beer and food and direct a taxi, as well as Indonesian, but anything more than a quick food ordering or "how's it going" and I'm screwed.

Far out, I like to wander away from the main topic sometimes. Anyway, so when we were staying in Sungai Pelek in the in-laws house, we heard one of them reciting the above rhyme to one of our kids, likely Babs. Except the local version went something like this;

Eeny meeny miny moe,
Catch a tiger by his toe.
See who win, see who lose,
Eeny meeny miny moe.


OMG I am chortling quietly to myself as I write this. I am not sure if it's something lost in translation, but frankly it's a pisser, and just one of many examples of where language inter-relations can have comical and endearing results.

It's now a common catch-cry in our house, when responding to something: "see who win, see who lose!". Love it!

Wednesday, 22 July 2020

Bourdain

Another one. Ok so I'm a couple of years late on this. In fact the last post where I referenced the suicide of someone influential to me was a year later than this one (in terms of when the event occurred). That seems strange, but those are the facts. Anthony Bourdain. A lover of life, food, pushing the limits and making the most of things. He seemed to have a better understanding of the world than most, and even his own mother commented that she thought he'd be the last person on Earth to kill themselves.

Suicide seems to be almost an epidemic. I wonder why. Certainly there is the copy-cat syndrome, particularly among the young. And of course those that are truly afflicted by the terrible curse that is (are) mental health problems. But when you read about Bourdain, Robin Williams and even Keith Flint from The Prodigy, I wonder if perhaps there is another, insidious and largely unseen contributor to all of this. That is, prescription drugs. In each of their cases, while it was well known, at least within their inner circles, that they struggled with depression, it was a surprise when they ultimately took their own lives. In Hutchene's case (INXS), it was a toxic cocktail of prescription, recreational and alcoholic influences that likely led to the tragic outcome, but in the other cases, it's not as such. In fact, almost clearly only prescription drugs.




Hey I am with the believe-nothing-those-media-fuckers-say crowd in just about all aspects, that is for sure. So when the media tries to stoke the fires of drama and conspiracy, inhale a deep lung-full of skepticism before reading any further, that's for sure. But I am very wary about the culture we have in the West these days. Just look at kids with so-called autism. Hey, hey, hey, calm down fuckers, I am not saying it's all a myth. I AM saying however, that GP's are far too ready to diagnose any kind of behaviour problem as being "on the spectrum" and prescribe behavioural drugs to deal with it. What happened to good old fashioned parenting? What happened to spending the time to manage these kids behaviours? Equal opportunity, both parents working, no time, rights for kids, blah fucking blah. Anyway, I believe it is the same for mental health. Take time to work through an issue and try to encourage development of mental strength, self-reliance and God-fucking-forbid, taking responsibility for one's own life? Nah fuck that. Modern life doesn't have the time. Let's just prescription drug our way the fuck out of Dodge and be done with it.

I am no expert and probably should not be espousing my mis-informed musings on the world at large. However that, is how I see it. Big pharma has a whole lot to fucking answer for.

Sunday, 19 July 2020

Lowgrade 1,2,3

 -----Original Message-----
From:   Frank Blanchfield [mailto:Frank@pacmin.com.au]
Sent:   Sunday, 22 October 2000 6:10 PM
To:     Brown, David
Subject:        lowgrade 1,2,3,

If you are putting values here  you can chooses what is what as perer says thatthe sunmmary and oreby type sheets are not being used!

Good Morning.
Frank

This one does the rounds every few years. Initially it was often, and as time has passed, the period between sharing has grown. In fact the last time I believe was the email I copied this from - one Gully shared back in 2009, 11 years ago. Look at the date, this October marks the 20th anniversary of Lowgrade 1,2,3.

Frank was my boss then, back in my earlier years, when I was a production and planning engineer at Tarmoola, doing mine schedules, blast designs, that sort of thing. Judging by the email, both Peter and Frank were around then, which confuses me as I thought one replaced the other. But I suspect Peter was the boss for a period, and Frank the senior engineer. We were doing scheduling - a spreadsheet that Peter had created - and I had asked a few questions about what I could and could not do with it. Lowgrade 1,2,3 was Frank's response, and an absolutely typical Frank communique! The man has a lot of character, and I have had a number of meals with him over the years, particularly in my JMS days of 2006-2008.




But Frank had a tendency to become tongue-tied, both verbally and in the written form, and he would frequently give us a large dose of mirth by innocently trying to communicate something mundane, but doing so in an almost unintelligible manner! Plus the "Good Morning. Frank" sign-off just put the cream on the cake for this one. Of all the emails, on all the sites, across all the years, this is the only one that survives to this day, at least between Gully, Adam and myself. I shall rattle their cages on October 22 this year to celebrate the day!

Sunday, 21 June 2020

It Truly Is The End of An Era

So I have been keeping in touch with Brian on and off since this whole Covid19 thing has happened - fortunately he was home on break when the borders were closed, and he has not been able to get back to work in Saudi since. Malaysia being Malaysia, well one is not always sure how things are going to pan out, and even though they had the army on the streets for quite some time, and very, very strict with lockdown, it is still probably not the best place to be in such uncertain times. Well, at least unless you have a very solid financial base.

So today I messaged him as I do every month or two, and was quite shocked to find out that in a month, they are gone. He is moving his family to Ailish's home town in Ireland. This was always their eventual plan, but I guess I was used to him being a part of the furniture in KL, and was relishing the idea of going for a visit to catch up one of these days. But I think his logic about moving while there is nothing else going on and borders are closed is sound, it's just that I won't get the chance to go see him before he leaves. Further to that, Kosta is also leaving in August - he has been a real KL mainstay, I think he's been there about 20 years. A huge part of his life.

So in terms of expats moving on, well that leaves only Peter - to my knowledge. I'll rattle his cage sometime too and see what he's up to. He does have a young family, but I am pretty sure he's made KL his permanent base. I hope so anyway - I'd be spewing if there was nobody left to have a beer with when, and if I make it back over there. Not that life is dwindling by any stretch of the imagination, but I don't want to be too much older before I go back.

Still, I'll always have my baby with me, and we always enjoy our times out and about. And frankly I spent a whole lot of time on my own over there too. So if I do make it back sometime, and need to go explore some old haunts all by myself. Well, we can do that.

I guess in some subconscious way, having a number of the old crew still in KL gave me a tenuous link back to the expat days of yore, and even though I have no intention of reprising those days for myself (likely just not on the cards anyway), having it still being a possibility was a nice, warm, nostalgic feeling.

The other thing is, well I don't know when I'll see Brian again. Hey we don't see a lot of each other now either, but him being in Ireland, well it makes it less likely I suppose. That makes me a little sad. We'll always keep in touch, and I'll always fondly remember out great chats. I just miss being able to crank up WhatsApp and send a message - "meet you at Green Man tomorrow at 2pm" or something along those lines.

Take care old mate, I hope we meet again.

Sunday, 31 May 2020

My Career - Part 1 - Southern Cross

So, this is where it all began.

My career in Southern Cross spanned three years - 1993 to 1995. In 1993 I went there for my work experience placement. At university that was a requirement of completing fourth year, getting three months work for a company relevant to the disciplines we were studying. Being that my degree was in Geological Engineering, well that had anything at all to do with dirt and rocks. Actually as I think I have mentioned before, that's why I chose this degree, because in the handbook we received in Y12, it had about the longest list of options for potential career choices.

It's funny looking back now - the way I found holiday work experience employment, knowing that WA was a solid source of mining opportunities, was to go to the General Post Office in Melbourne. We're talking mid-1993 here. In one part of the post office was a room where they had EVERY single Yellow Pages from across Australia. We're talking hundreds of the fuckers. So there was I, pen and paper in hand, scrolling through the Western Australia Yellow Pages from just about everywhere, writing down addresses of mining companies I could write to in order to ask for work experience. My memory fails me when it comes to how many letters from such origins I sent, but I believe it was 20-30. And of course, one never knew if one's applications ever actually reached their destination. I reckon I only got 2 replies. One was a thanks but no thanks, and the other was from RYGOL - Reynolds Yilgarn Gold Operations, based in Southern Cross, a shitty town about 2 hours Perthward from Kalgoorlie (so about 4.5 hours from Perth itself). They, on the other hand, said YES!

So there I was, at the end of my third year at uni, studying Geological Engineering at RMIT in Melbourne, embarking on an odyssey to the goldfields of W.A. I don't remember a whole lot about getting there, or who paid, but I expect it was RYGOL. I do know I flew into Perth and then took a bus to SX on a Sunday. I arrived in the camp in town late in the afternoon, got shown my room and had a meal at the mess. Ah the mess. Up until that point, I was pretty buff. I exercised a whole lot at uni, in fact Clint and I were gym junkies in Y1 and Y2. Y3 when I moved out from my cousin's place and with Nat in Mooroolbark, well it was just too hard to get into uni early enough to gym with the boys. So I guess by then I was already not 100% trim, taut and terrific! But this summer in Southern Cross, OMG. I drank so much piss it wasn't funny. Plus this was my first introduction to a mining camp. And this mining camp was very unusual in that they provided THREE hot meals per day. And yes, after three years of living like a pauper in my student digs, I partook. Big time. Bacon and eggs for brekkie. And if you didn't have time, butter toasted sandwiches. Hot lunch, every day, and multiple courses. Full dinner, including steak, chips, you name it. And of course beer, lots of beer.

I actually wrote a note to myself in one of my draft "career" posts that it needs to be more about the work and less about the war stories. The truth is though, that it needs to be about both. Yes there are times where the work was more and the life less, but frankly, it's more interesting when it's the whole story. And SX as we'll call it from here on in, was one heck of an introduction to me.

So in those days, SX was a town of about 900 people. Now it's more like 600. That's partially to do with the town kind of dying off, with not so much mining going on anymore and partially to do with FIFO/DIDO. In my day, there was no such thing. You came to work. You want to get out of town? Take annual leave mofo. Yep, and while you're there you're still in a basic mining donga (single persons quarters), and yes not earning a fortune like today. In those days, you were happy to have a job and you were prepared to move to the bush to get it. But in all honesty, I was on the back end of that, and within another 10 years, it was FIFO-baby, wherever you were.

SX was a shit town. In the year I was there, there was a murder and two suicides. Drug use was rampant, everyone was on the piss, and it was frankly depressing. Not that I felt that way at the time - hey I was having the time of my life. I had NEVER had so much money, I was working in my chosen field and I was in a professional team, developing an underground gold mine. A little about the environment first. The next three photos are of the three pubs in town....




Yep, the Railway, the Club and the Palace. The management usually went to the Palace, and frankly the only time I went there was on my second, post-grad stint, when we were all mulling over what to do regarding the Sons of Gwalia takeover (the first one for me - I had two in my career. Not just takeovers (had many of those) but two SOGs takeovers!). The club to my memory was a bit of a cliquey pub and I didn't feel so comfortable there But the Railway, well that was my second home. The pommy folk running it were a lovely couple, and for a bit of history - that's where I got my ear pierced, all those years ago! If anyone is wondering why I only singled out the town's three pubs for mention, well that's because there was pretty much nothing else in this place apart from a supermarket and a petrol station!

I don't seem to remember any skimpies in SX, although no doubt there were a few from time to time. Skimpies, for those who don't know, are scantily-clad barmaids. Generally one just enjoyed the view, but there were those who did tricks, like flipping $2 coins off their boobs and such. Or pouring shots from their nipples, stuff like that. Stuff that would get the PC Police up in arms today! But back then, it was part of life. If you didn't like it, don't go. The girls made good money. I get that you could see it as exploitation, but it was free choice. Yeah maybe not always, but generally the world was an easier place to live in back then. Now, every fucker gets offended by every thing.

Anyway, we'll talk more about the pubs and booze later on. For now, let's talk about the RYGOL camp. This was going to be my home for some time, both over the 93/94 summer and then from late 94 into mid 95, apart from a short stint in Marvel Loch (another RYGOL gold mine 30km up the road). The two photos below show what it was like, both outside and inside my little room.




I don't actually remember if I had my own bathroom or not back then. But in all honesty, I think I did, because later in life, whenever faced with the prospect of using shared ablutions, I was horrified! You can see that it is a pretty simple setup. I like that I can recognise most of the photos shown in this pic. I can identify a couple of text books too, how very nerdish of me back then.

I don't remember his name, but I was welcomed by the cook when I got there in late 1993. He was a big guy, with a curly mustache, and was very "camp". That's something I encountered a number of times in mining camps in W.A., more frequently that one normally would. I wonder why that is? Anyway, when I got there it was 40+ degrees and they had no power. So my room was an absolute hot box, unbearable to stay inside. A couple of old-timers smoking outside their rooms casually suggested a stroll to the pub to pick up some beer. So I did, and introduced myself to Emu Export, one of the most horrible brews I have ever tasted. OMG it was foul. But in those days there was very little choice in the west. When VB arrived a couple of years later it was a big thing. So the local Gold, Export and a couple of others was pretty much it. I generally opted for Swan Draft at the pub and Emu Bitter for takeaway, which was an ok drop.

As for work, well it was pretty cool. I was employed by a man called John McDougall, but didn't have a lot to do with him on site. I was mainly responsible to the geologists, Greg Hope and Janine Rea, as well as the UG Manager, Peter Tynan. I hung out with the surveyors and geotechnicians, which was essentially the role I had. Most of the time I was doing either survey work or sampling underground, digitising data in the office (drill logs I think) or logging km's and km's of diamond drill core. It was all fairly mundane work, and frankly I probably didn't pick up many skills that I used again in the future, but it was a good start, and eventually led to my first full-time job directly out of uni, back at the same place, in October 1994. But here in the first SX stint, it was geotech' work, purely at the Transvaal Decline.

Transvaal was an underground gold mine, accessed by way of a decline (basically a tunnel that is a ramp, so it winds its way deeper), owned by RYGOL and run by a contractor called Nash Brothers. I had been UG before, on a field trip to the Pasmico mine in Broken Hill, in second year at uni (93), but that was hardly a taste for working in an active mine. We had a few shift bosses, but the only one I remember was Nifty. He probably saved my life actually, as one morning I had turned up very much still under the weather. These days, you'd be breathalysed, and sent home if you blew numbers. Then, you were given a kick in the pants and told to get to work. So I did my sampling and then decided to go find a nice quiet corner to have a nap in. I went up a level and found a drive that was empty, walked in a ways and had a kip. Nifty, being a good shift boss, somehow figured out I wasn't where I should have been pretty quickly (very surprising in hindsight as there were a number of working areas, but perhaps he was mindful of my inexperience) and found me. He scolded me and pointed out that there was no ventilation in this drive, and that had I stayed there too long, I would have slowly suffocated without even realising it. Wow, that was scary. I didn't do anything like that again! Well, I did do a few more drunken stunts, but not at work. I have a hazy memory of myself and a colleague serenading the Railway's barmaid from the bonnet of a work ute one evening. Hey, don't get me wrong, I'm not proud of these deeds, but they happened, and were part of my formative years. Plus as I mentioned before, the culture was different back then.


So this was one of the work utes. Dime a dozen really, although to me at the time, very cool, and this was the vehicle I got my license in. Choosing SX as the place to get it was cunning of me, as there was only one stop sign in town, no lights, and the tiniest of little hills! I actually got my L's and P's on the same day, one after the other. Prior to that, one of the survey crew, Carl, helped teach me how to drive a manual, and also to parallel park. I will never forget him in fits as I tried to get between two drums he had set up and managed to hit them both. Sadly, I have never mastered this skill yet...


The photo above was taken on my last stint UG in early 94, before coming back to Melbourne to finish uni. The boys thought it was prudent that my last exit from the mine should be via the emergency exit shaft, rather than in (relative) comfort in a car up the decline. There were about 25 levels to climb up, mostly on shitty old ladders. It was one heck of an experience though and I am glad I did it.


Dave the intrepid miner! Not that I ever operated a jumbo, but I hung off the side of one once...

And below horsing around with one of the surveyors.


More tomfoolery, this time in front of the decline portal. The rock bolts in the face above are a common feature, just to make doubly sure that part of the wall never fails. The ute these boys are driving is a 100 Series Landcruiser. A Toyota like the Hilux, but a lot tougher and frankly an awesome vehicle. One of those would be my work vehicle everywhere until I cracked superintendent level a few years later.


The next two photos are of Greg the geologist, and the survey boys, Carl and sorry-can't-remember. The other two surveyors, Justin and Craig, I never got any pics of for some reason, which is sad, as I had some great times with them. It's a good memory to see the old UG change room - you never went UG in your clothes as you would always get filthy, so it was overalls all the way.



Apart from drinking copious amounts, I loved the repartee with particularly Justin, he had a great sense of humour. I went to the Big Day Out in January 1994 with him and Craig, and we had a huge day. That's a live music event with multiple stages. I think it was in Fremantle. All I know is that after a long day of drinking and burgers, we essentially walked 25km back to Justin's parents place. We did get a cab eventually, but after several hours of walking. OMG I was sober by then I can tell you! But it was a cracking experience, and in fact my one and only music festival.

Another weekend experience in the west that summer was Christmas. My cousin Carmen was living in Perth with her partner Joe at the time, both musos, and I was invited to spend the day with them. I took the bus, Carmen picked me up, and we spent the next two days drinking, eating and being merry. They had some other friends over, and it was a good time. I don't remember a whole lot other than that it happened, but there you go. Carmen is a good person and someone I would like to ensure I stay in touch with. She welcomed me into her home for a family Christmas, and for that I am grateful.

The next photo is the coreyard at SX. I spent a whole lot of time here, and logged heaps of core. I don't remember any of it being particularly spectacular, but there were some decent intersections. Apart from logging it, I also cut it and sampled it, so the whole gambit really. I think towards the end, some of the digitising I was doing was for sections that came out of this drilling, so I really was involved in the whole process. Those barrels may well have been the very same ones involved in my parallel parking practice...


This last photo was an incident that occurred towards the end of my stint too. A bogger was backfilling a stope and went over the side. Luckily the stope was only 20m deep, and because there was already some rill there, it was not a catastrophic result - as in the operator came out unscathed. Frigging lucky though. In hindsight, it wasn't the most safe of operations I have worked in, and I have never worked UG again.


There was another incident that occurred during this time, again one that could have easily resulted in my death. One of my jobs, as I always went into a face to sample straight after a blast, so we could quickly turn the results around and map out the face for mining (between ore and waste), involved me prying down loose rock on the backs (roof) of the tunnel (drive) at the blast area. One day I was doing just that, finished my work, then sampled and left. A good way to tell if the backs were solid was to tap your pry bar (huge crow bar really) on the rock. If it rang like a bell it was solid, if it was loose it would sound hollow. To me it all sounded fine, but then again I was a noob. Anyway, I passed Nifty on the way out as I left to wait for a ride at the decline (about 150m away). A few minutes later I could see a light bobbing up and down hastily, approaching from the end of the drive. Nifty came out, out of breath and flustered, and demanded to know why I hadn't told him of the roof collapse. I was in shock! It had been fine, when I was there five minutes before, underneath it. About 20m of drive came down, several thousand tonnes. I am amazed I didn't hear it, but UG mines are bloody loud places in areas where there are vehicles, vent bags, and equipment. Whichever way you look at it, I escaped death by a matter of a few minutes.

The last memory I have of the work experience era was of Lindsay Farley and Stretch, two RMIT geos who were also with Reynolds, but at Marvel Loch, the mine up the road. I was in contact with them and they organised a trip to Perth for a weekend to watch Australia play South Africa in one-day cricket on Jan 16 '94. We went down in Lindsay's convertible, a nice red sports car. We got there on the Saturday and then went out with his mates in Perth. I don't remember a whole lot except for Gobbles, the classic old 80's and 90's nightclub in Perth. We had a hell of a night and didn't sleep at all, staying out until stumps and then going for breakfast before going to the match at the WACA. Gobbles had closed down by the time I became a regular in Perth a few years later, but the site and the sign outside, persisted for many, many years after. In fact when I was living in Perth last, in 2004, it was still there, albeit in a decrepit state. I wonder if it's still there today? Following that night we went to the cricket and spent the whole day in the sun drinking light beer. Be it the sun or the beer or the night before, and possibly all three together, I was in a sorry state by the end of it. But it was a memorable weekend!

So all the above referenced my time in SX on work experience during the summer of 93/94. When I went back to uni, I actually did my design project - the major 4th year industry report we had to do - on the development of a new UG operation in SX, close to Transvaal. I got some advice from a lecturer, Dan O'Toole, and that impressed John McDougall, who came to Melbourne to talk to me, and then offered me fulltime employment post-graduation. At the time I finished my exams, I immediately left town and flew to Perth, on the bus again to SX. But this time I had my girlfriend at the time, Lucette, with me. She was a year younger and actually got my old work experience job, which was really convenient. The only downer was me - I was very emotionally immature in those days, and struggled with a pretty girlfriend (my first ever serious one) in a male dominated environment.

It also didn't help that at the time, the company was in the throes of a takeover. By the time I left in May 1995, Sons of Gwalia (SOG) had taken over, and I didn't feel very secure (which was probably just because I was taking my emotional energy from the older guys around me). Anyway, in the 8 months I was there second time around, I only really remember doing one thing of note - a full geotechnical study of the Mercury Pit. Mercury was an open cut mine close to Transvaal, and one of two pits there, the other being South Polaris. Mercury was borderline financially, and the company wanted to know if the design could be a bit more aggressive, in order to improve the strip ratio (the number of tonnes of waste one had to remove per tonne of ore in the pit). Alas I don't have any of my work from those days, but below is an example of a pit design, showing the orebody running through it. You can see that some walls are steeper than others, which is common where structure is more dominant or unfavourable in certain orientations.


What I actually did was spend a couple of weeks mapping the pit, taking note of the location and frequency of all the various joint sets, faults and other geological features I could find. I then loaded that into a program called Dips, which allowed me to analyse this data, figuring out what the optimum bench height and berm width would be for each point of the compass in this area. Below is a Dips screenshot, again not my data, but showed you the kind of work I did.


From there I wrote a report and produced a new pit design, which was more aggressive and did capture more gold and/or less waste. It was received favourably and I think generally I was seen as a decent young engineer there. My boss was a bit of a nutter. Gary Mills I think his name was, not sure now. He had a fellow called David Hughes with him a lot of the time, associated with the takeover I believe. It's fair to say though, that I never felt settled there.

The mining industry is in constant flux and people change all the time. But I was amazed that in less than 9 months since I left my work experience, almost ALL of the people I had worked with were gone. Justin was the only one still there, and he now had a partner - the gorgeous barmaid from the pub we had serenaded back in the day, and as I was in the same boat, we didn't go do the boy things we had only a year before. To my detriment I have to say. I also had my dog with me - Diesel - and Justin was good enough to let her live with him in his house. Diesel was a prick in terms of behaviour, which is entirely my fault. I was not good with her, and have generally been poor with dogs since. I hope being a dad has helped me to learn patience and to always lead with a loving heart, because back then I most certainly did not. Anyway, it's a long time ago now, and whilst I probably could have had friendships that endured, I was not thinking too logically. It wasn't the first time, and wouldn't be the last.

There is one last memory I have about those days - Stunts. Stunts was a DOS based car racing game where you could design your own tracks and then race them. One of the geos - Chris Davies - and I were particularly manic about this, and I recall coming in one morning to find a note from him about a track he had designed and labelled INSANE. Haha, it's an inside joke, but it makes me chortle still. Thanks Chris, that's a fun memory.

Not long after, and when in the throes of the takeover, I went to Kalgoorlie - two hours further inland - for a weekend. I went to the tourist lookout over a place called The Superpit, and my life changed instantly. I knew I had to work there. I went back to SX and wrote a letter of interest. What happened next will be portrayed in the next chapter.

So that's it for Southern Cross. It really was only the beginning. I didn't really learn a whole lot there, not compared to what was to come anyway. But I did learn one thing - what I didn't want in a company and a working environment. Anyway, by mid-95, I was out of there, and onto Kalgoorlie.

Footnote: This has been one heck of a post and taken me quite some time to put together. Amazing, considering it represents only a very small percentage of what I have done in my adult life. I hope I can find the time to adequately portray the rest of my experiences. It has been enjoyable looking back...

Friday, 8 May 2020

Aussie Food

My lovely wife summed it up perfectly - in Asia, you buy takeaway food that is both cheaper and better than you can get at home. In Australia, you buy takeaway food that is fucking expensive and frankly, shit.

Compared to home-cooked anyway. We just paid $75 for chips, half a dozen nuggets, a few shitty frozen pieces of flathead, a couple of snags, a bit of salad, and not a whole lot else. Even if you take into account the 1 for 1 ratio for overseas spending - that is, $1 Aussie is equivalent to 1 whatever in the local currency (which I think is generally a fair ratio, unless it needs to be x1000 like in Indonesia). If you did that, you would have RM75 to spend, say RM70 if you took off delivery. For that, you could feed our family of five with a bloody banquet of takeaway food. OMG, imagine - 2 x 7.50 pork noodle, 1 x 6 Hokkien mee, 2 x 10 chee cheong fun (with the lot!), 4 x 5 roti telur, plus drinks and say curry puffs. Now you tell me that isn't 1,000x better than what we got tonight.


But hey, it's ok. We kind of half-expected this. We did it to support local business during this tough time. Normally we only go for Dominos or Maccas, both of which we enjoy their unique flavours, even if they are quite junky a lot of the time. So all good.

Tomorrow I am cooking home-made siu yuk, or Chinese roast pork. It won't be a patch on what you buy at the breakfast hawker stalls for next to nothing, but oh boy, it will be so awesome compared to almost anything else you can get here. I apologise if this causes offense to anyone. I don't mean to, it's just that I have spent a lot of time in Asia, and street food / takeaway is almost a religion to me, so I have to rant.




Friday, 24 April 2020

Top 40 Songs of All Time #7

So I don't want to subject anyone - least of all myself - to going through line by line to rank the 40 songs I have in the list so far (bearing in mind we already have a significant number put aside that we know won't make it). So I'll do that song vs. song process we went through in the last post myself and offline, and just publish the results. Perhaps after throwing a few more songs into the mix,

Right, right, right, so this is me sauntering in in March 2020, likely a good 6 months after the last post (above). Yeah, it's all been happening in the meantime and this blog has been one of the many neglected casualties.

Actually, no. This is me sauntering in AUGUST 2020 now, and I am going to publish this damn post today and leave it posted. I just need to put a bit more background into song selection. I am going to post because it needs to be, and I need to move this project on. The end analysis is going to be much different, I can promise you that, but for now, I need progress goddammit!

Echo Beach vs. Galvanise - Galvanise win. EB is a good song, but it's more the nostalgia that gets me when I hear it, not so much the awesomeness of the song itself.
What's Up vs. Echo Beach - WU win. WU is a classic rock song with one of the all-time best choruses. Hard to beat.
WU vs. Galvanise - WU win. WU has more going for it and suits a "hazy" lifestyle such as mine even better really.
WU vs. One Night in Bangkok (Vinyl Shakerz) - WU win. Rock beats house.
WU vs. When I Grow Up - WIGU win. It's been with me for years that song. Those in the know will know why. Frankly probably nobody does, maybe my wife.
Truly, Madly, Deeply vs. Echo Beach - TMD win.
TMD vs. Galvanise - TMD win.
TMD vs. ONIB - ONIB win. Gotta consider my varying tastes.
Invaders Must Die vs. Echo Beach - IMD win. This is an odd choice. IMD is not a great song, but it's infectious and rousing rhythm works on me.
IMD vs. Galvanise - IMD win.
IMD vs. TMD - TMD win. Wow, hard-core electro vs. sentimental, who would have thought.
Oh What A Night vs. Echo Beach. Oh fuck off, who am I kidding, lets go straight to #10.
OWAN vs. ONIB - OWAN win.
OWAN vs. WU - OWAN win.
OWAN vs. WIGU - OWAN win.
OWAN vs. Just A Girl - OWAN win.
OWAN vs. New Sensation - NS win. Sorry, can't beat the INXS classic. Really? At the time, on that night, that was the result. Yet I have skipped NS multiple times on the old iPod in recent months, much less so OWAN. May need a recount.

Time to throw the proverbial cat among those motherfucking pigeons.

Run To Paradise vs. What's Up (yep #10 off the bat) - RTP win.
RTP vs. TALL - RTP win. That's beating the current #5 song.
RTP vs. DAVID - RTP win. Fark.
RTP vs. DYSWIS - DYSWIS win. Finally, the upstart is brought down to Earth!

Do You See What I See is an all-time classic I must admit. But this article is telling me that the notion of an "All Time Top 40" is not going to be an easy one to put together.




Hahaha, it's kind of funny, reading these words, long after they were written, and long after their relevent situation had changed markedly. Wow. But yeah, I still know what I was on about, still resonate with those thoughts, regardless of the level of sobriety or inebriation that may have prompted those words and thoughts at the time.

So here I am in late April 2020, still without music post #7 published. Got to get this done and got to find a better and more productive way of doing this analysis. I don't need to share every moment, just the outcomes, especially considering as we're only aiming for a Top 40. So I am going to post now, and when #8 in this line comes along, there's gonna be a whole lot more in there, without the guff...


Saturday, 18 April 2020

Melbourne - Planning A Weekend Visit

So recently we considered a weekend in Bendigo. Wifey and I both have food desires we wish to indulge - her sushi and me yum cha. Bendigo can provide both, although to what standard is a big unknown. Yesterday I looked into booking us a night or two for this weekend, and was shocked to see just how expensive it was! Admittedly, the long weekend doesn't help, but it looks like it's going to be an expensive exercise at the best of times. Plus, that investment does not guarantee a satisfying food experience! Country Asian food is often not particularly authentic.

As a result, we have abandoned that idea, for the time being at least anyway. Thinking about it more though, I figured, why not just go a bit further and do it in Melbourne instead? The authenticity, variety, availability and price will certainly all be better there, as are the huge variety of place to stay. The thing with Melbourne these days too is that no longer does one need to go to Springvale, Richmond, Footscray or Little Bourke St to find good Asian food - it is literally everywhere! So I figured I'd do some research on some great eateries for wifey and I, some reasonable Asian grocery shopping, some shopping for the kids, maybe some decent playground for them, and of course somewhere reasonable to stay.

I'll start with getting a large-scale map of Melbourne, and shading out the parts I want to disqualify off the bat in terms of traffic and distance.


The line I have put in is fairly arbitrary to be honest, but having been down to Werribee and across to Nunawading/Box Hill recently, I think I understand the limits I wish to travel on those extremities of the city. Plus I don't want to go near the CBD, hence stopping the line a suburb or two to the north. Following this, I went to Google, and looked for reputable yum cha restaurants within the bounds of my line.

There are an absolute heap of them! But I was looking for something specific - the white table cloth, maybe trolley service, but more a place focussed on yum cha than a one-stop-Chinese-shop place that does it all. Maybe that's unfair because even the best of them usually do it all, it's just that at lunchtime, it's all about the dim sum. It's hard to put into words, but after decades of being a yum cha tragic, I know what I'm looking for. In the words of Ron Swanson, "I know what I'm about son..."

So, I flicked through a whole lot of review pages, and came up with two reasonable contenders. Hey there may be more, but this is about a number of contributing factors. Once we're there, if we see something that looks better (and may be so good they don't bother with an online presence) we'll give it a crack. I have no issue with more than one yum cha in a weekend if it comes to that too haha! So here are the two restaurants:

Andy's Yum Cha House - Essendon

Gold Leaf - Preston


Both are from reviews I found on Zomato, which was good enough to categorise reviews based on area of the city. On a side-note, if I do end up in the CBD/Southbank area for other reasons, it looks like there are some absolutely cracking places there still. That thought reminds me of a date at a Chinese place in the city one night while at uni - but that's a story for another time. On with this travel planning quest for now...

So, if we put yum cha second on the list after locality, this is what we end up with. I like it because either way, they are fairly close to each other, with less than 10km by road between them. That gives the weekend a lot of flexibility, if the other items on the search list don't conveniently end up in similar locations to each other (and one of these two of course). Next on the agenda, restricted to the suburbs shown on this latest map, is sushi. Again, there were many places that popped up, but we like more traditional sushi, and certainly served sliced, not in a big solid roll, which seems to be the norm here in Australia. We found two places that stood out:

Chiba - Moonee Ponds

Matsumoto - Brunswick

I won't update the map for each and every step of the process in this post, although I am doing it in reality. Posting these two with the two yum cha places showed that one of each were very close, and so for now I am tempted to go with that option. That is the Essendon yum cha and Moonee Ponds sushi.

This may all be thrown by the next item on the list - our kids LOVE indoor playgrounds, so I am hoping we can find one while we are on this trip. A good fallback, and perhaps something we will do regardless, is go to the zoo, which is not far from this neck of the woods at all.

Tickity Boo fits the bill nicely. Actually there are many such places within a few km of our first two nominated places, but this one is the closest. It is also between the two eateries and the zoo, so for my thinking, it's all coming together in terms of location. Again, if we don't like the look of this joint, we can very easily go elsewhere within a few minutes drive.

Next item on the list is shopping. Wifey and I are ok with anything really, as we are already avid online shoppers. But sometimes it is nice to browse through a mall. This is especially so in the case of the kids, who go apeshit at the sight of a Toys R Us or something similar! So I am targeting this search in terms of a decent toystore. As it happens, there are boutique toy stores near to the target area, but they are small, a little bespoke for my liking, and likely expensive. You can't beat a big one with all the brands, both for selection, but also for the kids fun in searching. So to that end, Toyworld at Highpoint Shopping Centre looks like the go. Plus it's a big mall, so we can satisfy most shopping itches there.

Another shopping must-do is Asian groceries. Luckily, these days this kind of store is ubiquitous, but it still pays to check. As it happens, Yahweh Asian Grocery has stores at both Highpoint and also the sushi place, so we're well covered.

So we have food, entertainment, and shopping ticked off the list. That pretty much just leaves accommodation. Normally I look at hotels, well historically I do anyway. But in the last couple of years, we have had some awesome success with AirBnB, mainly in KL, but also in Geelong. The thing is, even with just the five of us, we need two rooms, and outside Asia, that gets expensive real fast. But when we stayed in KL, both during Christmas 2018 and June school holidays 2019, we intended for wifey's family to come stay with us - that's another four adults and three kids! So we went the AirBnB option. The first one, in Mont Kiara, was bloody awesome. An older condo for sure, but walking distance to shops, restos and bars, and a quick drive to hawker stalls. We then found another place in June 2019, outside the main areas, and cheap. It ended up being a good option, even though I probably wouldn't go there again. To be fair, that probably had more to do with the three week stay than anything else.

Anyway, yet again I digress. So in our experience, this style of accommodation is perfect. So I did a search today on properties in our target area. As expected there are many, but most are quite dear. Hey one can't really expect much under $200 a night in Melbourne, but I don't want to spend too much. In the end I found a place close to Chiba, for a total of $525 for a 3-night stay. Sold!

So, that pretty much sums up the planned weekend, assuming we get to do it sooner or later! Here is my final starred map:


PFG is the closest location to the apartment that I could star, literally only metres away. According to Google, it's a 2.5 hour drive from home. Now that's what I call a nice and easy getaway. The only other thing I might like to add to that list is perhaps a Malaysian restaurant. Once again, due to the magic of Google, check this out:


Plenty to choose from, much of which sounds awesome I have to say. I reckon we leave early Friday morning, plan to get to Highpoint by lunchtime, eat there, get the kids some toys and us whatever tickles our fancy, check in, chill, dinner at sushi place. Next day, morning at playground, lunch at yum cha, arvo chill. Dinner maybe Malaysian? Next day, morning Zoo or maybe movies, arvo whatever we feel like, evening another place we have spotted. Next day home. Three nights away, plenty to tick off the food and shopping and experience list that we just can't get here. I'm sold. Just need for this virus to bugger off so we can do it. I am hopeful for Spring...


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